Unreasonable Unrealistic Resentment runs deep Ungrace causes cracks in relationships Genesis 45:1-7 - Different times he toyed with them - Joseph struggled with grace - Grace is unnatural - We find it hard to forgive and feel forgiveness Pslm 17:13 - David struggled -one time (kill my enemies) and then asked for forgiveness Matthew 6:9-15 - Our forgiveness hindges on our willingness Matthew 5:43-48 - God expects you to forgive Matthew 5:23-24 - Forgiveness is done before worship of God Reason to forgive = To be like God Do you hate what God loves? Matthew 18:21-35 Romans 12:17-21 Grace melts ungrace Must trust that God is a better judge You need to break the cycle of unforgiveness - it is what God did!