Not a "nice" word but aggressive word in Webster's transliteration:
Sudden violent outburst
Fit of violent action or emotion
A severe medically attack
How do we accomplish the "spurring on"?
Must be done with thought and with their needs in mind - not one size fits all
Must be done with end result to result being love and good deeds
Pray for their needs and let them know that you are
Share scripture that you believe will be relevant
When they share struggles - ask them about it consistently
Do not be afraid to give someone a bold challenge
Key Phrase:Spurring someone on requires thought and with their needs in mind - not one size fits all