When Rehobam was firmly established and strong, he abandoned the Law of the Lord - 2 Chronicles 12:1
There is a lot self-help books and programs teaching we can find fulfillment in our stength, mind, and soul
True fulfillment and strength is found walking closely with God and humbly obeying his commands
Rehoboam took a good look at all he had accomplished and becamse self-satisfied and abandoned God
He crowded out God's place in his heart
Rehoboam leading the way:
Rehoboam failed as a leader and as a man of God because he found strength and satisfaction in his own accomplishments