Refers to the building a structure and rhythm into our famiy schedule
Times when the whole group gets together
Mealtimes
Everyone is there for dinner - someone is missing, there is a very good reason
Talk about significant things that happened during the day
It is the simple things that build fabric
Stop letting people read the paper, watch TV or do homework during dinner
Disallow running off to different rooms
Stop making appointment that take you away
Allow no phone calls
Make dinnertime an event - work hard to keep it special
Create family traditions - do things that uniquel to our family
Make birthdays a big deal - does not have to be expensive