Jesus, knowing he would have to face the cross alone - would be have been easay to maintain his distace
He didn't; he threw himself into life completely
Closeness reuires spending time together
Jesus was the initiator and he wanted to be with John and John want to be with him
At the last supper, John was seated to Jesus' left - John 13:23-26
Jesus confides who the betrayer without the others noticing