Some things that depend on us
We can always have a gracious attitude
Paul choose to focus on the result - Christ is being proclaimed - Philippians 1:15-19
We can always be humble
Consider others better than ourselves - Philippians 2:3-4
Walk worthy of the calling - with all humility and gentleness - Ephesians 4:1-2
We can always be positive - Philippians 2:14-15
We can always listen - James 1:19-20
We can always control our anger - James 1:20
Some things are our of control when to comes to reconciliation but they are many things within our control to build a relationship