2010-05-27 - Desire's Journey - Language of Desire Jesus offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry to the one who could deliever him - Hebrews 5:7 Strong desires make strong prayers Children are often not embarrassed by desire Why are we embarrassed by our desire? Why do we pretend?
We don't pray like Jesus because we don't allow ourselves to nearly alive Pretending seems a much more reliable road to Christian maturity Without a deep and buring desire of our own, we will be ruled by the desires of others |
2010-06-02 - Desire's Journey - Loneliness and Heartache Even received a different curse from God - Genesis 3:16 More talk amoug women revolves more about relationships than work The worst fear of a women is abandonment Some men refuse to play the man for fear of failing |
2010-06-03 - Desire's Journey - Hardest Lesson to Learn God promises evern man futility and failure We spend much of our time attempting to end these curses It can not be done Will life ever be what I so deeply want it to be? We must have life - we can not arrange for it People avoid the lesson:
...rather than facing the truth - Isaiah 57:10 Some have seen that this will not work, yet they have faded into resignation, bitterness or dispair How do we accept that it can't be done with an open heart? |
2010-07-04 - Desire's Journey - The Grand Affair (part 1) To know and to be known. It is our deepest ache. Love makes us to crazy things for love. No union on earth like the consummation of love between a man and woman Becoming one - this is what God is seeking with us Bible is the greatest romance ever written |
2010-08-09 - Waking Dead - The Heart's Eyes Do not lose heart, fix our eyes on what is unseen - 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 We are losing heart, all of us, daily Someone was trying to shutdown Paul during his ministry - 2 Corinthians 11:23-27 Life is an illustion - there is a way of looking at life and be able to live from the heart no matter what Jesus spoke in parables to our hearts:
Jesus spoke in a way that will get past all intellectual defenses When you tell a story, you speak to the heart |
2010-08-12 - Waking Dead - Myths (part 3) Myth tell us three truths, this third one is: 3. In this desparate hour, we have a crucial role to play Neo sees himself as Thomas Anderson, but he was the one People in the scriptures that saw this:
This eternal truth is the most difficult for us to believe There is a glory to your life that your enemy fears The one who knows what you could be, fears it Things happen to you and we question why If believe we have a crucial role to play and come to know it is true, everything would change |
2010-09-30 - Contagious Christian - People Matter (part 2) Jesus focused on a search for the Lost and so they could be Found The Lost Coin - vital to the woman's survival Each one - Something of great value was missing, something that really mattered It also make Jesus so upset the religious leaders were discussing who matters to God who does not When we realize how much God cares about people, we helps us to care for them too It is worth the effort - what is missing was important enough to warrant an all-out search Retrievals results in rejoicing The woman found the coin and threw a party In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents - Luke 15:10
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2010-11-09 - Contagious Christian - Samaritan Woman Invitational Approach Samaritan woman was living an immoral lifestyle Jesus ignored all conventional wisdom - John 4 It didn't take long to realize she wasn't talking to any ordinary teacher but the Messiah She immediately went to town and brought people back to hear Jesus Now we have seen and heard for ourselves and we know that this man really is the Savior of the world - John 4:42 Many would make great strides if they just make strategic inviting to a church service or event Primary question you will need to answer is which event will be appropriate to bring them to Invitation are great way for all of us but some just have the knack for getting people to go places with them Many of these Christians tend to stay out of the limelight but they make a big impact to their world |
2010-11-12 - Contagious Christian - Direct Method The method does not wait for opportunities to come about but creates them Basic it is you raising a spiritual topic and then see if the person is interested in talking about it Not forcing a person but opening wide a door for a person to walk through Example - If you would ever like to know the difference believe religion and Christianity and religion. Just let me know. I would be happy to talk about it with you It is a modern day way Jesus approached a woman in John 4. Not pressuring or forcing it on them but merely checking to see if they are interested Other way to approach people using the direct method of creating spiritual conversations:
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2010-11-14 - Contagious Christian - Overriding Principles Pray Hard
So they will not be embarrassed or concerned about the opinions of others Pique Curiosity Drop hints and create curiosity the way Jesus did with the woman at the well Rely on Reciprocal Reflexes Want to tell someone about your interests or beliefs, just start asking them about theirs Seize Split-Second Opportunities People provide us with the chance to raise topics of faith, but most are not prepared for them It is one thing to see the opportunity but it is quite another to seize it - takes courage Don't Underestimate their Degree of Interest We can assume many are not interested but the truth is people today are getting tired of living without purpose |
2011-02-14 - Sin and Repentance - Kansas City (part I) Luke 7:36-50 A. Simon the Pharisee
B. Sinful Woman
Question: Which type of heart would YOU SAY youv'e had toward YOUR SIN until we started studying the Bible? Isaiah 59:1-3
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2011-02-16 - Sin and Repentance - Kansas City (part III) Romans 6:23
John 3:1-7
Acts 2:22-24
Acts 2:36-41
Romans 6:1-4
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2011-05-03 - Names of the Believers (part III) Believers as children:
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2011-06-17 - Mind of Christ - Discipleship (part II) Three stages in discipleship (continued): 2. The convinced disciple
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2011-06-27 - Mind of Christ - Helping People (part II) The following attitudes can help bring about a heart of compassion:
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2011-08-08 - Daughter Needs - All-Male Dad (part I) The All-Male Dad believes he raises only boy and the girls are raised by the mother Perhaps he wanted her to be a boy and never got over the disappointment He prefers to go to his son's baseball game rather than his daughter's ballet There is no male vs female in Christ - Galatians 3:28 God created man and woman differently but there is not any difference in his love or attention toward them Lot (Genesis 19) was the worst All-Male dad In Sodom, when homosexuals mob appeared at Lot's door, he offered his tow daughters Priority should have been on his daughters If he had sons, there is a lot of doubt he would have made such an offer |
2011-08-11 - Daughter Needs - Loving Kindness A daughter needs a father's gentleness, protective favor to intercede for her against those who would do her wrong Two tendencies to limit their kindness:
Do you give your daughter far more positive comments then negative? Say something positive, then say "do better" next time? |
2011-08-17 - Daughter Needs - Spiritual Nourishment There are many standards/examples in which to live in the Bible A godly woman - Proverbs 31 Qualities of an elders' or deacons' wife - 1 Timothy 3 Our most important spiritual goal with our daughters is to ensure they believe in God and His Son - John 6:28-29 Fathers should bring their children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord Father needs to correct his children when they stray Father needs to help their daughters understand that he still loves her when she makes a mistake Those who knows God's name will trust in Him - Psalms 9 Fathers have a lifelong responsibility to spiritual nourishment to the family I need to be in the Word everyday to be able to feed my family |
2011-10-02 - Genesis 2 - Creation & Recreation Recap SummaryGod formed a man and gave him the garden in Eden, except for the tree of knowledge. Adam was alone so God made a woman as his partner. ObservationsGenesis 2:7 - from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life Personal ApplicationMany times I look for ways on how to automate work (it is part of the work I do as part of my career) but sometimes lose sight that work is what I am suppose to be doing. When automating tasks, I need to make sure I am using my additional time to do even more useful things that God has called me to do. |
2011-10-03 - Genesis 3 - The Fall of Man SummaryThe serpent deceived the woman; she and Adam ate from the tree. Man blamed woman, woman blamed the serpent. The earth became cursed, and God sent Adam and Eve out of the garden. ObservationsGenesis 3:1 - Did God really say Personal ApplicationI need to be aware of Satan's tricks continuously. He does not want to be noticed. I need to pray and reflect on how I am living my life and find where Satan is getting me to deviate even a fraction of a degree. I need also examine my thought and find out they are out of line with God's Word. I will ask others what they see where I have taken a devour on God's narrow road. |
2011-10-28 - Mind Change - Simplicity Be thankful. Laugh. Sing. Trust God. Apply this today. Apply it every day. Yes, even with what is happening today. Don’t let any new development stop you. Proverbs 31:25 - A noble woman can laugh in her days to come Psalms 147:7 - Sing praises to our God John 14:1 - You believe in God - no distress |
2012-01-11 - Day 39 - Faith is the Victory Mark 2:1-12
Application: What are some things in your life (or someone's) for which you really need God's help? Keep a prayer list and keep on praying! |
2012-01-13 - Genesis 20 - Abraham lies about Serah at GerarSummaryIn Gerar Abraham said, "Sarah is my sister." King Abimelech took her but God warned him in a dream. He restored Sarah to Abraham. ObservationsGenesis 20:3 - You are as good as dead because of the woman you have taken Personal ApplicationI usually don't have an issue with knowing right from wrong. It is usually that I am not aware of what I am doing. I am either not paying attention or not focused. I need to watch my life closely so I will be righteous in God's eyes and so others can be saved because of it [1 Timothy 4:16]. |
2012-01-22 - Ministry - With Jesus, You Will Not Stand Alone John 8: 1-11 Compromising circumstances were not sufficient evidence, as the Jewish law required witnesses who had seen the act. Imagine what this woman felt in the midst of an angry crowd eager to trap Jesus, she was caught in the act of adultery! She was humiliated and alone. The incident was staged to trap Jesus since the Romans did not allow the Jews to carry out death sentences. So if Jesus had said to stone her, he could have been in conflict with the Romans. If he had said no to stone her, he could have been accused of not being supportive of the law. So Jesus started to write on the ground, we could only imagine what he wrote, it could have been the list of sins. Then without disagreeing with the law he gave them a qualification to cast the first stone, it was whoever was without sin instead of whoever is without the sin of adultery. As Christians, even though we know that God sees all sins the same, we categorize sin and fall in to Satan's trap of self-righteousness. We forget that deceit, bitterness, envy and anger are just as bad as sexual immorality or murder. Jesus showed the woman compassion, mercy and also commanded her to leave her life of sin. We can only imagine the woman's sense of relief and gratitude. Her life will never be the same again. At the worst point of your life Jesus stood up for you, instead of letting you be condemned. Questions:
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2012-02-05 - Ministry - Touching Faith Mark 5:24b-34 This woman had been subject to a chronic disorder for 12 years of her life. Imagine for a minute the discouragement, doubt, devastation, and frustration of not being able to see this condition get better. In fact, it just got worse. Have you ever felt defeated about something in your life? Have you ever been discouraged for months about your marriage? Personal fruitfulness? Relationships? Then you can relate to this woman. One of the Satan's deadliest tactics is to keep people from being open about their lives. Sadly, many of us fall into this trap Satan has laid for us and we begin to live "double lives" in the Kingdom. We live a certain way in the world and a certain way at church. For a brief moment in her misery, she decided to have faith and touch him Jesus felt power leave him so he asked "Who touched me?" People stop, some get nervous, some put their heads down, some look at others. Everything is silent. The woman's conscience perhaps was pricked and she had a decision to make. She knew what she did and she knew what the right thing to do was. So she fell to her feet, trembling with fear, she told him the whole truth. But what she thought Jesus would do, he didn't do because he is not like you or me. She learned Jesus wanted to her to be open and tell the truth not because he wanted to scold her, admonish her, or even take the miracle back. He actually wanted to honor her. Question: What doubt or discouragement in your life is holding you back from being 100% sold out to God? Talk to your discipleship partner today about it. Getting "in touch" with it is the first step to change. |
2012-02-18 - Fear of Failure - Letting Problems and Failures Build Your Faith by Tracey Jones, San Francisco Church of Christ Romans 4:18-22; Jeremiah 29:11; Romans 5:1-6 We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they are good for us--they help us learn to endure. And endurance develops strength of character in us. Romans 5:3-4 (NLT) I think as a non-Christian, I was the most anxious, controlling person in the world. I remember I would have almost every minute of my life planned out from beginning to end. Although it helped me to be disciplined and to achieve goals, it stopped me from letting people into my heart. I was always the strong one to my friends and family…"the rock". They saw all the successful things on the outside, but they didn't see the desperate, feeble person I was inside. When I began to work with people, it was very difficult for me, because I had no control whatsoever over them. That lack of control began to crush me. Now I see that God is using my problems and failures to encourage me to grow. He is telling me the little that I know is not enough - I need to keep growing and changing and developing into the person He wants me to be. One decision I have made when I have problems in my ministry, marriage, or family is to pray about them and to commit them fully to God. Now, instead of giving in to thoughts like “I can't change that woman's heart, I pray specifically about what I need help with and have confident expectation of what God will do. This has brought much more joy to my marriage, ministry, and life. What is stealing your joy? Could it be that you are letting problems and situations dictate your life? Decide today to commit those things to prayer and ask God to give you increasing character to deal with your life. |
2012-10-17 - Prayer of the Righeous - Treasuring Us We are jewels in the hand of God - Isaiah 62:3 He is rejoicing like the woman in the Lost Coin parable - Luke 15:9 Are worth much more than sparrows - Matthew 10:31 Like young people in love carving their names to profess their love, God has engraved you on the palms of his hand - Isaiah 49:16 He gave his own son in exchange for us - Isaiah 43:4 Who else would do this? He world does always treasure us like jewels
God saw us for who we really were and yet treasures us like jewels in his hand. |
2013-11-30 - Holy Matrimony God alone designed the marvelous mystery of marriage. |
2014-02-24 - Heart Hindrances (part II) Continuing the “heart hindrances” that will push your chidren away.
You must keep your radar up to sense if you have your children’s hearts Questions to continously ask:
Too many men foolishly refuse to apologize because they’re trying to save face and don’t want to look bad.
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2014-05-31 - Genesis 24 - Search for the Bride of Isaac (part II)SummaryEliezer met Rebekah by the well exactly as he had prayed. ObservationsGenesis 24:12 - Please give me success today ApplicationI do not have the dependant prayer I need to have. I have many failures because I depend on myself and do not ask God. |
2015-03-30 - Women in Jesus' Life But go find my brothers and tell them, "I am ascending to my Father" - John 20:17 Jesus treated women with a tehn unheard-of respect:
Jesus swam strongly against the tide of popular culture of the day and treated woman with respect
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2015-03-31 - Eyes Have It I have made a covenant with my eyes not to look with lust at a young woman - Job 31:1 Sexual temptation burns many men simply because they are careless Job took some time for self-examination He knew that
Those who have no interest in pleasing the Lord will say, "Hey, there's no harm in looking" but the man commited to God knows better Job's advice if you want to keep your body and mind pure: Don't even look
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2015-05-29 - Opportunity Knocks Jesus sat wearily beside the well; soon a Samaritan woman came to draw water - John 4:6-7 Jesus understood the importance of making the best use of every opportunity to preach and teach his message He was ready for the opportunity to share his message with the people of Samaria via the woman he jusr meet Jesus' words made a lasting impression on the woman, her neighbors - John 4:39 They were stunned that she meet the Messiah Life will present you with opportunities to serve God through serving others |
2015-06-07 - Learn to Listen Fools think their own way is right - Proverbs 12:15 David advised Solomon to observe the requirements of the Lord and follow all his ways - 1 Kings 2:3-4 Solomon may have spoken words of wisdom but his life ended in foolishness:
Solomon's failure to practice what he preached led to his downfall His wives turned his heart away from God and toward idol worship You will save yourself a lot of trouble by knowing the Word of God and doing what is says
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2015-07-04 - Infectious Faith Don't be afraid! Go ahead and do what you've said - 1 Kings 17:13 When you speak and demonstrate your faith openly, it is bound to infect others It seemed Elijah was the only man with faith in Israel but he didn't let that stop him speaking God's Word who desparately needed to hear it Drought had led to famine, God sent a woman with little money to feed Elijah didn't allow the lack of wealth affect his faith and persuaded the woman to share what little she had She never again lacked food for herself or her son Faith isn't real unless you put it to work, don't worry about running out - God will give you what you need |
2015-08-18 - Receiving God's Promises Issac's wife was unable to have children and the Lord answered his prayer with twins - Genesis 25:21 In those days, a married couple without children for a long period of time was considered to have shameful lot Would he give up? Would he father a child with another woman? Would a child come when they were old? His heart was set on something and he got on his knees and prayed God delivered not only once but twice It took 20 years but Issac recived God's blessing in God's way |
2015-09-04 - Always Caring Dear woman, here is your son - John 19:26-27 Jesus somehow continued to meet the needs of others even as he was taking his last breath Jesus' mother suffered inconceivable pain and grief as she saw the cruelty her son endured In his perfect obedience, love, and compassion, Jesus tended to her needs - Giving her John to take care of her Jesus was the most compassionate man who ever live - spending his last moments alive taking care of people What kind of stress or pain often forces you to turn inward? When does it become most diffcult for you to show compassion to others? |
2015-09-17 - What Say You? The Lord has shown unfailing love and faithfulness to my master for he has led me straight to my master's relatives - Genesis 24:27 Gratitude should flow naturally from the Creator-creature relationship He wants you to bring your needs and desires to him in prayer so he might meet them and then thank him for answering Eliezer went to God and asked very specifiically and directly a sign for show him the woman for Issac When God gave Eliezer exactly what he asked for and remembered to turn to him immediately to praise and thank him |
2015-09-27 - Blessed, Not Honored I will go, but if you go with me - Judges 4:8 Military leader named Barak lead Israel into victory over the Canaanites but was reluctance to lead couragously was costly God promised victory but Barak told Deborah he would go only if she promised to go with him Barak demonstrated a measure of respect and honor for Deborah but also a lack of courage and faith on his part Deborah agreed but told Barak he would receive no honor for God would use a woman in his victory - Judges 4:9 How do you respond when God calls you to do something great? |
2015-10-19 - Discipline at Home Sons of Eli were scoundrels who had no respecr for the Lord - 1 Samuel 2:12-13 Eli mentored Samuel, Israel's first prophet, but failed to teach his own son the basics of godly living Hophni and Phinehas brazenly disrepected the Lord and forced themselves sexually upon young woman who came to the Tabernacle Eli reprimanded his sons but they had long since listened to him God told Eli that his sons would die and his family would foreve lose the privelege of serving the priesthood Eli was a good man but not strong man - his children need him to be both |
2015-11-17 - God Sees Us Shamgar once killed 600 Philistines with an ox goad - Judges 3:31 Shamgar was one of thirteen people who were judges in Israel Men and woman were responsible for maintaining law and order There are only two verses mentioning Shamgar, above and - Judges 5:6 Nothing is said about him except:
His name is not prominent in Scripture but God is well aware of everthing Shamagr did |
2015-12-10 - Guard Your Heart He noticed a woman of unusual beauty - 2 Samuel 11:2 Our enemy knows our weakness and it often comes to us through what we see David fell because he allowed himself to stare lustfully and sinful thought quickly turned into a sinful action He apparently learned from his blunder, he later wrote: "I will refuse to look at anything vile and vulgar - Psalms 101:3 Have you learned to safeguard your heart by safeguarding your eyes? Can a man walk on hot coals and not blister his feet? - Proverbs 6:28 |
2016-10-04 - Genesis 26 - Issac (part I)SummaryIn Gerar, Isaac lied about Rebekah being his wife. ObservationsGenesis 26:5 - Abraham listened to me and obeyed all my requirements, commands, decrees, and instructions
Genesis 26:9 - I was afraid someone would kill me to get her from me
ApplicationThe first step toward helping children live righteously is for the parent to live rightly. What kind of example I am setting for my children? PrayerPlease help me to see what I am projecting onto my children by the life I am living |
2020-03-21 - Friendly with the Rich and Powerful too Jesus was best know being friendly to the poor, bad and sick but he was also was a brother to the rich and powerful too - He was a brother to every man There was more said about the Bible about the poor than they rich because Jesus was able to nearer to the poor than the rich:
Jesus was as friendly to Nicodemus as he was to the poor woman at the well He was as brotherly to Zaccheus as he was to the poor beggar in Jerusalem When Jesus went to be baptized, John would not do it because it was for the sinner but the good. Jesus wanted to participate because he wanted to be counted amoung men. Jesus knowing the other side and he could help but tell them something about the great God in world they were living The rich man in the parable of Dives and Lazarus: the rich man did not go to hell because of his fine clothes or riches - it because of his heart- not tender; sympathy did not go out to a brother's need Abraham was rich and went to heaven because he had a brotherly heart Jesus was too brotherly for people to understand Jesus - If I can not help them with my life, I will help them with my death |