Introduction:
The word “disciple” is very important biblically. (Read Matthew 28:18-20). Jesus said to go into all nations and make disciples. A useful and descriptive term for the process of making and maturing disciples into Jesus’ image is “discipling.” The Greek text in Matthew 28:19 literally says, “going, therefore, disciple [a verb] all the nations.” The rest of the verse makes it clear that “teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you” is a part of the discipling process. Thus, a “discipling” relationship is one in which a disciple helps another person to become more obedient to Jesus in attitude, life-style and mission.
---Teacher / Elder- Gordon Feguson “Discipling- God’s Plan to Train and Transform His People”
Lesson:
Discipleship should have the qualities of a Spiritual Parent. We all need discipling no matter how old or young we are spiritually. Discipling resembles that of a Spiritual Parent in at least four measurable ways:
1. Commitment
2. Teaching
3. Personal Attention
4. Modeling
A. Commitment 2 Corinthians 2:4
· Colossians 1:28-29 To Present everyone perfect in Christ
· It takes labor, work and even struggling
· Goal of Discipler is to help a disciple mature, become a well-rounded disciple and help them spiritually reproduce.
B. Teaching Biblical Truths
· 1 Thessalonians 2:13 Discipling should have the Word of God
· 2 Timothy 3:16-17 The bible is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training –We need to have a teachable heart
C. Modeling Be an example, Be transparent
· Goal is for the disciple to imitate the heart and convictions of the discipler
· 1 Corinthians 4:15-16 spiritual fathering in Christ Jesus, there is a father-like urging and calling on to imitate the God-like qualities
· 1 Corinth 11:1 Follow Jesus-like qualities
· Philippians 3:17 Set a biblical pattern of living
· Phil 4:9 The things you learn put into practice
· 2 Thessalonians 3:9b A model to follow
· A discipler walks through life with the disciple, they show them how its done and gently encourages them to imitate
D. Personal Attention Each disciple is unique and needs individual attention
· 1 Thessalonians 2:7-8 a mother’s care, caring and sharing your life, be gentle.
· 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12 Urging, comforting, encouraging as a father
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